Hey there! 😅
If you think Undas is just about visiting the cemetery, lighting candles, and saying a prayer, let me ask you something: have you ever tried getting your entire family to the cemetery on November 1? Because that is an event in itself.
Between the traffic, the parking situation, the crowds, and making sure nobody forgets the flowers, food, or candles, a simple visit can turn into a full-blown logistical operation. And don’t get me started on what time everyone should leave. There’s always that one relative who’s “five minutes away” while still getting dressed. 🤣
What should you pack for Undas?
Pack like you’re going on a field trip. Water, snacks, tissues, wet wipes, hand sanitizer, and an umbrella are your best friends. If your family plans to stay for hours, bring something comfortable to sit on, too. And please, wear shoes you can actually walk in. This is not the day to find out that your cute new flats are secretly instruments of torture. 👟
How do you handle the heat and the long hours?
November may mark the start of the cooler season, but our weather doesn’t always get the memo (Hello Super El Niño). Stay hydrated, take breaks in the shade when you can, and keep an eye on the kids and the older members of the family. A little planning goes a long way when everyone is out under the sun for hours.
What should you expect from the family?
Manage your expectations. Someone will probably get lost looking for the right grave. Someone will insist on buying flowers at the last minute. And someone will ask, “Kulang ba pagkain?” even when there’s enough food to feed a barangay. 😆
How do you take care of yourself while looking after everyone else?
While you’re busy catching up with relatives, don’t forget about yourself. Hours of driving, walking, and sitting can leave you feeling stiff and sore. Oleia Peppermint Oil can be one option to include in your personal care kit for those everyday aches and pains. It has a cooling feel that’s refreshing, and the scent is one a lot of people love. 🍃
At the end of the day, it’s not about having a perfectly organized visit. It’s about showing up, spending time with family, sharing stories, and remembering the people who remain part of our lives in one way or another. ❤️
So pack your essentials, charge your phone, bring your patience (lots of it!), and leave a little room in the car for those extra containers of food. You know they’re coming home with you anyway. 😂
Show me your bottle and I’ll show you mine? ‘Til next time! 🤗
xo, L.
